I was actually (somewhat) talking about this in my literature class today. Sometimes being too loyal to someone or a group of people can do a lot of harm for you, depending on the situation — for example if the loyalness isn’t being shown back to you; and as you say, the person want to see you vulnerable as you say — they want to see you struggle emotionally. This raises the question: are we sometimes too loyal to people?
Yeah it’s very interesting to think about and I might make a whole post on this idea. Isn’t it incredible how one sentence on your idea makes you want to write more on that belief…
Happens all the time. But this specific piece is kinda about when you lead people on and then come to realize they want to take things further, when in reality, you weren’t planning on it. You were kinda just doing things for fun.
And what if they do want to take it farther? Are you obligated to do so?
Absolutely not and if you do out of obligation to them? Then what are you? Back in the day such a woman was called a “cock tease” and “deserved what she got.” Was that correct?
And why can’t a person, “play around with another while it’s fun and comfortable? And say no when it isn’t any longer?
Btw, your original query reminded me the the show: “Am I the A-hole?”
Never underestimate what people will do to fulfill their desires.
Engaging in the game is entertaining for all parties involved.
You really have to think, “Why am I holding on to the string?”, “What am I getting from it?”, “What is the end goal of holding on?”, and most importantly, “When should I let go?”
There is something in you that is driving your hand to hold even though you don’t fully desire to pull the fish out of the water!
I’ve learned that there may be some level of disrespect that comes with being vulnerable because I’m a very open person. It’s human. It’s normal and we just have to accept it and keep it pushing.
Liz this is beautiful 🩵🩵 letting others being vulnerable around you but not letting yourself relax for a second is something I'm struggling with too <333 I have only very few people I can be like that
Lazy chatgpt bullshit
why did she like this comment bro im crying
Yes, because that is the truth he shared.
Lmaooo 😭😭
I didn’t use AI. None of my posts are AI. That would defeat the purpose.
I know it because I love your notes.
I was actually (somewhat) talking about this in my literature class today. Sometimes being too loyal to someone or a group of people can do a lot of harm for you, depending on the situation — for example if the loyalness isn’t being shown back to you; and as you say, the person want to see you vulnerable as you say — they want to see you struggle emotionally. This raises the question: are we sometimes too loyal to people?
That’s an interesting perspective. Maybe too loyal to the wrong people?
Yeah it’s very interesting to think about and I might make a whole post on this idea. Isn’t it incredible how one sentence on your idea makes you want to write more on that belief…
Happens all the time. But this specific piece is kinda about when you lead people on and then come to realize they want to take things further, when in reality, you weren’t planning on it. You were kinda just doing things for fun.
And what if they do want to take it farther? Are you obligated to do so?
Absolutely not and if you do out of obligation to them? Then what are you? Back in the day such a woman was called a “cock tease” and “deserved what she got.” Was that correct?
And why can’t a person, “play around with another while it’s fun and comfortable? And say no when it isn’t any longer?
Btw, your original query reminded me the the show: “Am I the A-hole?”
Honestly, thank you for this <3
That’s kinda what friendship is to be fair
Never underestimate what people will do to fulfill their desires.
Engaging in the game is entertaining for all parties involved.
You really have to think, “Why am I holding on to the string?”, “What am I getting from it?”, “What is the end goal of holding on?”, and most importantly, “When should I let go?”
There is something in you that is driving your hand to hold even though you don’t fully desire to pull the fish out of the water!
I like this observation. Interesting.
The text can be understood in so many different ways. Very interestingly written! Thank you.
Thank you for reading <3
Putting those feelings into words, they’re going to land softly on a lot of hearts.
I hope so. <3
I’ve learned that there may be some level of disrespect that comes with being vulnerable because I’m a very open person. It’s human. It’s normal and we just have to accept it and keep it pushing.
Liz this is beautiful 🩵🩵 letting others being vulnerable around you but not letting yourself relax for a second is something I'm struggling with too <333 I have only very few people I can be like that
I can, but I don't have to;
here is great freedom and responsibility in this…
Nice